Last post - Reflections on what I (re)learnt while being a volunteer

As I promised, here's the last post to share with you what I've learnt from my volunteering year.
To be honest I still find it difficult to sum it up (despite the fact that it finished 2 months ago), nevertheless I will try. :)

In the beginning I didn't have very clear goals for the project, I just wanted to change my environment and see how is life at an NGO and after quite some years in the cold world of big soulless companies, I sort of wanted to regain faith in humanity. (I know this sounds a bit weird, but if you get stuck in a job you don't really like for years, you get burnt out... at least I did.)
Truth to be told I felt sort of stuck personally too: always the same activities, the same circle of people (don't get me wrong I love my friends and family, but I also like meet new people and I felt I just didn't know where and how to do it anymore), the constant itching to go abroad again and all the what if-s and "big questions" of life. 
So yes, I wanted to get out and see what happens. :)

Well, I'm happy so say, that my aim of regaining faith in people was 100% achieved: I've met more great people during this time than I thought I would. They all are special and each have a lot to learn from. Being with them every day (or on a regular basis in case of my "students" and the ones who came to our events) made me see many things differently, sometimes even myself. I'm very grateful for this, because thanks to them I re-discovered some parts of my "old-self" that I needed to see again.
I made some very good friends and I think it's safe to say that my colleagues here became my local family too. However I also realized (again) that nobody can ever replace my family back at home and my closest friends, who all followed and supported me during this experience. Even if virtually, their presence means a lot to me.

Professionally speaking I also learnt a lot, but I don't want to write a list of the things, that's what the CV is for. Working at a small NGO like Ecocompartimos can be very challenging: obviously not the same way as at a big company, but it does have its own difficulties. Money though is also a central item here: not as a main goal, but more as a constant need to survive and keep being able to provide the services to people. This gets frustrating sometimes, because I think an NGO should not be so focused on money... However, in the current world we live in, I understand that this is the only way of surviving. But still, I find it unfair.
Besides the financials, I found working at a small shop very diverse: as we were a small team, I got to do and see a lot of things and Helena involved us in pretty much everything. And she also gave us a lot of space to come up with ideas and make them happen. Though what really struck me was how hard it is there to find collaborators. I'm not sure why, but it seems that in Illescas if you are not an "insider" you can't find anyone to collaborate with. One time we went to a school to offer them free English activities and such things, and after waiting for an answer for a very long time, they just said that they are not interested as they have enough international activities. This was quite sad, since we didn't even ask for anything in return. However there are thankfully a few places that are open to organize things together (like the radio).
One more thing I also liked at Ecocompartimos was that because it is so local, it was easier to see what problems people really face each day and also the positive impact we had on their lives.

And last but not least I've learnt Spanish, this was on my list for quite a while now. :) And not only the language, but a huuuuge amount of things about the culture as well. Not to mention expressions that I most probably wouldn't have learnt otherwise. :)

So all in all I'd say this project gave me more personally than professionally (strictly speaking), but it was actually perfect this way. I don't quite know yet where the future brings me, but I hope I'll have more experiences like this later as well.

March activities

Finally spring has arrived! :) And our activities continue as usual. :) 

We had an English event again together with the reading club in the library on Friday 13th which was not as successful as the previous one, yet we had a lot of fun. We talked about superstitions from all over the world and then went to the teahouse together for a drink. :)

Our small but enthusiastic group :)

We also keep doing the English games for kids, though it is also getting challenging - in the first week we had again a nice big group, so we played a "human-sized board game" about favorites and a memory game, but then when we prepared a quiz only 3 kids came... so it's a bit unpredictable. Though last time we had again the whole group so we could play the quiz in the end. :)

Of course we had the usual 2 intercultural chats, the first about famous people (that somehow went into the direction of politics as well at one point :P) and the second about Easter - as it is a big celebration here and quite different from other countries. As usual we had some food too, for the first chat Dilya brought some nice Russian goodies and for the second we prepared some Easter-food from our countries. :)

I made some kaszinótojás ("casino-eggs") and potato salad (and I couldn't miss out piros arany - it's pepper cream, very Hungarian :))

Super delicious sweet potato soufflé by Amber :)

As for non-work activities I had a quite active month too: the first weekend of March was almost like summer, so I spent most of it outside. That Sunday I got invited to a brunch and got to know some new people, it was a lot of fun. :)

11 people from 10 different countries :)

The 11th was a local holiday here in Illescas - as I was sick that week I didn't really participate at any activities, but I went to a concert where a violinist with Armenian origin played together with  Spanish guitarist. Everybody was excited about them so I was curious too - and yes, they were amazing, I'm glad I had the chance to go and see them.

The weekend after I went to a free workshop of natural cosmetics here in Illescas, which was interesting and useful. We made a soap, a body lotion, a hand cream and a lip balm. They were all surprisingly easy to make and we got the recipes too, so from now on I can make my own things. :)

The week after we arranged a trip from Ecocompartimos to Carranque to finally see the Archeological Park and have a guided tour about the Roman ruins and mosaics there. It was very nice, the group we "recruited" and the sights as well. :)

Ruins of a temple

Ruins of a room where we could observe the heating system they had back then

Amazing mosaics made of very small pieces

Speaking of mosaics: I'm done with my second "masterpiece" and now I'm working on a Picasso picture... I think this one will take a lifetime to finish haha, it's quite big and with challenging shapes... but let's see. ;)

My newest piece of art :)

February activities

And here we go again with the summary of the month! :) The highlight of February was definitely the mid-term evaluation in Mollina and then the trip to Málaga, but besides this we had some other things going on too.

First of all we managed to "finish" the YouthPass wall, or well, at least to update it until the end of January and then of course we'll keep on adding the upcoming activities.

We also started with the "English playground" on Wednesdays: we play different games with a group of kids these afternoons. So far it has been quite successful, they seem to enjoy it. Though it is a challenge to make them speak in English. :) Plus they are quite a big group (around 7-8) and quite active, so it also takes a lot of energy to pay attention to them and try to keep them from shouting hehe. :) But it's fun, so far we played for example home-made Scrabble, Twister, Activity.

This month we had again 2 sessions of the intercultural chat series: one about Carnival and the other one officially about arts - practically we spoke more about traveling, but it was still very interesting. And of course at both we had some food - I think it's now kind of a tradition that we always have to eat something while chatting hehe. :)

Enjoying the Russian-style pancakes (typical food for them at Carnival) and some natillas con galletas, which is like an "egg-pudding" with biscuits.

In February we started with the Spanish courses finally. Charo, our "veteran" English student was kind enough to offer organizing conversation classes for us, so with her now we are finally having some classes and learning things. :) I think I haven't written about our struggle with the Spanish course yet... long story short: we subscribed for an official on-line university course that in the end doesn't exist and they refuse to give us our money back so far. The battle is still ongoing, so fingers crossed, I really hope to get our money back in the end, even if it takes long.

And last but not least, we organized our very first EVS preparation session this month! :) (well first since September and first where it's not me who is being prepared) There are 2 girls, Irene and Beatrice who went to Poland for a 10 months long project, so before leaving we tried to give them as much practical advices as we could and also shared our experiences. Of course it was also fun and I hope it was useful for them and they will enjoy their projects. :)

EVS mid-term training and Málaga

Last week we had our mid-term EVS training. This time we went to the South, we were in a village called Mollina about an hour away from Málaga, close to the mountains. To be honest I expected nice spring weather down there, but of course as we were in the mountains it was quite cold most of the time. :P However it was very sunny and the few days we spent in Málaga afterwards were the warmest winter holidays I've ever had (not counting Peru, but strictly speaking I didn't go there in winter :)).

A glimpse of the "complex" where we were staying in Mollina, it was full of palm, lemon and orange trees :)

This training was quite different from the on-arrival one: first of all there were 120 volunteers in total, which was a looot compared to the nice family-like group of 23 in Santiago. :) However there were some people from the previous training, so I was very happy too see familiar faces. :) Secondly, the content was also different: the first training was mostly about getting information and this was more about reflecting on our experiences, evaluating our projects and think about the future (both of our projects and our own a bit).

Group picture of all the volunteers

Most of the time we were divided into smaller (~15-20 people) groups and my group was just awesome!! :) It was very diverse both in terms of ages and nationalities (not to mention personalities) and I think we were a good mix. We had good atmosphere and team dynamics even during the "serious and boring sessions". Our trainer Patri was very energetic and she managed us very well, I also think she was a good fit for our group. :) We even did a quite emotional goodbye: we formed a circle and each of us had to go a round with eyes closed and the others had to guide him/her or dance or hug or whatever they wanted to do, it was very nice. :)

The sessions were also interesting, of course we had a lot of games to get to know each other and not to fall asleep in between sessions. And then we were analyzing our projects, thinking of things we could do differently or better, figuring out some next steps, giving ideas to each other and so on, it was quite intense.

My group collecting what we learnt so far in our projects

On the last day we collected what EVS means to us and made a "hot-air balloon" 

For some parts of the training we were divided into different groups: on the second night we had a "CulturCreative" night where we had to present the communities where we are staying in Spain along with the other volunteers from that region. In my case it was Castilla La Mancha and we had quite a hard time figuring out what to tell, because this region has no sea or famous food... and we were not allowed to use a computer or a presentation, so we had to be creative. :) In the end we managed, we found a legend of El Greco and played a scene from Don Quijote (where he is trying to fight the windmills :)). The others were very creative too, some prepared with costumes, some with funny Spanish expressions or some things in Catalan and Gallego, it was a lot of fun. :)

Community of Valencia dressed up as paella and beach :)

Galicia - with rain and some expressions in Gallego

"Sightseeing" in Madrid

On Thursday we also had an activity in Málaga (with again different grouping :)), we had to make pictures and a video to make some publicity for EVS, here are what we made with my group:

And on the last night we made something like a flashmob: we were divided into 4 groups and each group had to learn a small choreography in a certain style for the same song. The categories were ballet, flamenco, robot and zumba. (You can guess which one I chose... ;))

After the training we decided to stay in Málaga for the weekend with Dilya and Theresa (a German girl we know from Santiago). On Saturday 2 other girls - also our friends from the previous training - Anna (from Austria) and Leonie (from Northern Ireland) joined us too. We also met up with some other volunteers randomly as we walked in the city. It was a very nice and relaxing weekend, the city is beautiful, the weather was quite good too (especially for February :)), I had a wonderful time.

As usual here are some photos:

My fake "summer" beach photo - though the kids in the background really went into the water :)

Amazing view on the sea and the city from each side of the castle

Roman Theatre

Inside the Alcazaba

In the Interactive Museum of Musical Instruments - we could try all kind of classical and "tropcial" instruments here :)

The obligatory group-selfie with Theresa and Dilya :)

Ups and downs of being a volunteer abroad

Inspired by Dilya's post about her adventures with visa, this post is dedicated mainly for those who are planning to go on EVS/abroad or preparing to leave already. It’s not very much about practicalities (as your organization will prepare you for these), but more about emotional ups and downs.

Volunteering abroad is great, meaningful and rewarding in many ways. Most of the time I love being here and I am very grateful for this opportunity and if I could go back I’d definitely not choose any differently. But there are some rough times when I feel that nothing goes well and I miss a bit my “old and easy life”. And I know this is normal, yet knowing it does not make this any easier.

As in the beginning of January I just got through such a period, I have been thinking a lot about this topic lately and about my experience as a volunteer in general. So here is a list of the good and bad things I experienced so far, I hope you will find it interesting and/or useful:

1. Freedom: This might sound like a cliché, but living far away from everything and everyone I know gave me an enormous amount of freedom. I have been always very independent, but here I really feel that I have full control over my life. This is something I find scaring and deliberating at the same time.

2. The people who are the closest to me are far away: I think this is the hardest for me to handle. Even though I can talk to my family and friends almost every day, it is not the same as seeing them in person regularly. On the bright side though I’m not so far away from home and I know that strong relationships don’t depend on the distance.

3. Start everything from zero: This is actually something I enjoy. Building up new habits (or re-building old ones), new ways of working, new relationships, new hobbies. And balancing this out with everything I already have. It takes a lot of time and effort. And patience – especially with myself. :)

4. Language barriers: No matter how well I speak Spanish or English, there are just days when nobody understands me no matter which language I speak and this is frustrating. Also some people always look at me as if I were an alien. But I learnt here some expressions that I’m pretty sure no language school would ever teach me. :)

5. Losing fear (or handling it better): As I’m in a completely new environment, most of the time I have to step out of my comfort zone to do things: working in Spanish, making new friends, sometimes even shopping for a small thing. :) Doing new things are always somewhat scary, but when you have so many of them at the same time you just stop being afraid, because you realize that so much fear would stop you from actually living your daily life.

6. Value of money: Well yes, from a volunteer’s salary it’s sometimes hard to make ends meet, especially because I had full-time jobs before, so I'm used to a different way of life. Although I’m much more creative now in finding alternative solutions for practically everything and I am happy with it. I think this somewhat brought me to a new level of consciousness with money.

7. “The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.”: I didn’t decide to go abroad to find myself or get to know myself better in the first place (as I’m continuously working on this for quite some years now :)), yet it is still fascinating to notice how the things I thought were my strengths and weaknesses transform. Also some days I feel completely lost.

8. Intensity: I'm not really sure why, but I feel that the days here are more intense. I enjoy more the good things, suffer more from the worse ones and my mood changes more often than it did. But this means that I also value time more, move on faster from the bad and take chances I wouldn't have taken before.

9. Small town life: This was something I was a bit afraid of when moving here, as I lived always in a city. Well, in winter there is not much to do here in the town and sometimes I feel bored or paralyzed. On the bright side going to Madrid is always an option and I also hope that spring and warmer weather will bring back life to Illescas too.

10. Cultural differences: Again a cliché, but as I love diversity this is something I consciously observe and enjoy. Though here I didn't have any big cultural shocks, sometimes the lack of organization and postponing things to the last minute set me on edge. But the fact that people are nice, helpful and easy-going usually compensates for this. Oh and the food (as an essential part of diversity) as well. :)

November activities

November has been the busiest month since I'm here! Don't take me wrong, this is not a complaint - on the contrary, I enjoyed it a lot. :) I already wrote about our "fame" and about my travel to Lisbon, but many other things happened too.

We had 2 more of the intercultural chat series: one about music and dances, the other about what makes us ashamed and proud of our countries. Unfortunately not so many people came as for the previous occasions, but we still had a great time.

Besides we started to make a "YouthPass wall" in the shop, where we put photos and adverts of all the events we organized since we're here. It will make the place look better and also will help us remember more the activities in the end when we will have to write the YouthPass, hehe. :)

I also started a Christmas decoration workshop: we have been promoting it for a while already, but there wasn't much interest, so I was very happy when someone finally signed up. :) We began by making Christmas decoration with quilling and already finished the first piece. Furthermore the lady attending liked very much this technique, so next week we'll create some more things. :)

Speaking of creativity, I started workshops with Helena's and Mabel's children too once a week. I have to say this is a big challenge, as I'm usually not good with kids - or well, at least I haven't worked with them yet that much. So far we did origami stars (which turned into flowers in the end as the girls were really creative :) and this week I showed them some quilling; they enjoyed that too. Next week I want to do some Christmas stuff already, let's see where their creativity brings us! :)

And last but not least last weekend I had another trip: this time to Valladolid. Helena and her family planned to go there and they offered a seat in the car, so I thought why not. :) I found a cool host, Alberto, on CouchSurfing who showed me around a bit, took me to eat some local tapas and even introduced me to some of his friends, with whom we ended up going out on Saturday night, so I had a great time. :) The trip to Valladolid and back was fun too, we played games in the car, which were super entertaining, although I was the weakest link who constantly broke the fluency of the game, as my Spanish vocabulary is not that extensive yet. :)

Plaza Mayor

Autumn colors in Campo Grande 

Royal peacocks in the park :)

Enjoying the sunshine after a day of constant rain

San Pablo church

Beautiful interior in Museo Nacional de Escultura 

Christmas lights in Plaza Mayor

Training in Santiago de Compostela

Last week I had a 5 days long “on arrival” training in Santiago de Compostela. The aim of the training was basically to help the volunteers who arrived recently to Spain to integrate a little easier: we had some sessions about the culture of Spain, practical information about EVS and the EU, some time to discover Santiago and A Coruña and of course many games to get to know each other better. :) We were altogether 26 people from many countries and it was really great; it reminded me a lot the AIESEC conferences we used to have. We had a very intense schedule, most of the sessions were in Spanish (though by the end of the week we spoke more of a mixture language of everything) and of course we didn’t get much sleep as we went out for some drinks almost every day. :)

I have to say I enjoyed this training more than I thought: at first I was a little worried, as most of the other volunteers are much younger than me (many of them are 18-19-20 years old), so I had no idea whether I was going to get on well with them, but of course this was an obstacle only in my head: everyone was very open-minded, mature and fun, so the age really didn’t matter. :) We had great discussions and I have to say it was very inspiring to see so much enthusiasm and curiosity for the world (which I haven’t seen much lately in the corporate world unfortunately).

I don’t want to describe each session we had in details, but only the ones I liked the most: we had a game to discover Santiago, where we were divided into 4 groups. Each group got a list of things we needed to accomplish: we needed to take group pictures in funny/hidden places in different parts of the city. We had a lot of fun: in the beginning everyone was a little lost, but after the first few obstacles we became braver and also felt more like a team.

We had also a trip to A Coruña: first we had an official presentation of one organization there and a panel discussion with different people who talked about their EVS experience. After this we had some free time, so we could go and see the city. The weather was amazing, so we decided to go to the beach (not to swim, but just to enjoy the view), it was great to “meet” the Atlantic Ocean for the first time not from a plane. :)

There was one more thing I liked a lot: we got a little book where we can define and then track our own EVS experience and learning. Goal setting is also something I had earlier in AIESEC (and even later in my life), but I still very much enjoyed re-learning the importance of this, as I haven't really thought it through regarding my EVS specifically. So now here is the time. :)

Here are a few more pictures of this amazing week:

The Cathedral of Santiago

Beautiful view of Santiago's old town

Nice park right next to the old town

Some of us enjoying the beach in A Coruña

The whole team at Torre de Hercules